Assets and Accounts
Real estate, bank and brokerage accounts, retirement, vehicles, and anything else of value, with approximate values.
What You OwnEvery clause in a prenup, every protection you are counting on, rests on the same foundation: both of you knew what the other had when you signed. Get the disclosure right and the agreement is hard to attack. Skip it, and you may have signed a very expensive piece of paper.
First call is a conversation, not a commitment. · By Corrie Sirkin, Esq.
Financial disclosure means each of you gives the other a fair and reasonable picture of what you own, what you owe, and what you earn, before signing. Under Virginia Code § 20-151, a prenup can be attacked if it was unconscionable when signed and made without that disclosure. Disclosure is not a formality. It is the load bearing wall of the agreement.
Here is the honest picture: when a prenup gets challenged years later, the fight is almost never about what the agreement says. It is about what the spouses knew when they signed it.
Virginia Code § 20-151(A) sets out when a premarital agreement is not enforceable. A challenger must prove either that they did not sign voluntarily, or that the agreement was unconscionable when it was executed and, before signing, they were not given fair and reasonable disclosure of the other party's property and financial obligations, did not voluntarily waive disclosure in writing, and did not otherwise have adequate knowledge of those finances. Read that closely and the lesson is clear: disclosure is the shield. An agreement supported by honest, documented disclosure takes the strongest attack off the table before it starts.
The statute does not demand a forensic audit. It demands honesty with enough detail that the other person knew what they were agreeing to. In practice, we build a disclosure schedule attached to the agreement itself: assets with approximate values, debts with balances, income, and any expected inheritances or interests worth knowing about. Account statements, a recent tax return, and a stated value for anything hard to price, like a business. Both spouses sign off on having received and reviewed it, and the schedules become exhibits to the agreement. Years later, nobody has to remember what was shared. The document shows it.
The statute also allows a written waiver of disclosure. We treat that option with caution. A waiver can be valid, but an agreement that rests on "I chose not to look" is simply easier to attack than one that rests on "here is everything, in writing." If full disclosure is possible, full disclosure is the answer.
People underdisclose for predictable reasons: embarrassment about debt, fear that a real number will scare a partner off, the instinct to keep a business private. Every one of those instincts points the wrong way. An asset left off the schedule does not stay protected. It becomes the crowbar that opens the entire agreement. The spouse who finds it years later does not just attack that one item. They argue the whole prenup was built on concealment, and now every clause you were counting on is in play. The painful disclosure conversation before the wedding costs a weekend. The concealment fight after a divorce filing costs years.
Virginia Code § 20-151(A) makes a premarital agreement vulnerable when it was not signed voluntarily, or when it was unconscionable at execution and the challenging spouse had no fair and reasonable disclosure, no written waiver of disclosure, and no adequate knowledge of the other's finances. Honest disclosure, documented in the agreement, closes that door.
The rule of thumb is simple: if you would be upset to learn your spouse hid it, put yours on the list.
Real estate, bank and brokerage accounts, retirement, vehicles, and anything else of value, with approximate values.
What You OwnStudent loans, credit cards, mortgages, business loans, and tax liabilities, with current balances.
What You OweSalary, bonuses, distributions, rental income, and side income, usually backed by a recent tax return.
What You EarnOwnership stakes with a stated or appraised value. The hardest item to price and the costliest one to shade.
Stated HonestlyFamily money or trust interests you reasonably expect. Surprising a spouse with a fortune later invites a challenge.
Known ExpectationsBoth spouses confirm in the agreement that they received, reviewed, and understood the other's disclosure.
Proof for LaterDisclosure problems are almost never about complexity. They are about candor and paperwork.
"Disclose like the agreement will be read aloud in a courtroom in fifteen years. Because the bad ones are."
The item people want to hide is always the one that matters: the credit card balance, the business that is worth more than they have admitted, the inheritance they have not mentioned. Share it anyway. Your partner agreeing to terms with full knowledge is what makes those terms permanent. And keep the proof boring and complete: schedules attached, values stated, acknowledgments signed. When a challenge comes a decade later, you do not want to be reconstructing what was said over dinner. You want to hand the court an exhibit.
These are the questions we hear most about the disclosure exchange. If you have a different one, we are happy to answer it directly.
It means each future spouse gives the other a fair and reasonable picture of their property and financial obligations before signing: assets, debts, income, and significant expectations like inheritances. Under Va. Code § 20-151(A), the absence of that disclosure is half of the strongest attack on a prenup, paired with a claim that the agreement was unconscionable when signed.
It can put the entire agreement at risk, not just the hidden item. A spouse who proves the agreement was unconscionable at signing and that they had no fair disclosure, no written waiver, and no adequate knowledge of the finances can ask the court to hold the agreement unenforceable. Concealment is the most common reason prenups fail. If you have discovered hidden assets, bring the documents to a consultation.
No. The standard is fair and reasonable disclosure, not a forensic audit. Good faith approximate values, backed by statements and a recent tax return, are the normal practice. The exception is anything hard to price, like a business, where a stated or appraised value is worth the effort because that is the number most likely to be fought over later.
The statute allows a voluntary written waiver of disclosure beyond what was provided. We rarely recommend relying on one. An agreement supported by actual documented disclosure is simply harder to attack than one built on a waiver. If the goal is an agreement that holds for decades, the afternoon spent exchanging schedules is the cheapest insurance available.
We will walk both of you through the exchange: what to gather, how to document it, and how to attach it so the agreement stands for decades. Three offices across Northern Virginia, one phone number.

