Inheritances You Have Received
Money or property already passed to you, named on the schedule with its current form and value.
Already YoursAn inheritance or a gift from your parents starts out as yours alone under Virginia law. Then it gets deposited into the joint account, or spent on the joint house, and years later no one can prove where it went. A prenup keeps that from ever happening.
First call is a conversation, not a commitment. · By Alisa Chunephisal, Esq.
Yes. A Virginia prenup can protect inheritances and gifts, both ones you have already received and ones you expect in the future. Virginia Code § 20-150 lets you agree in writing that inherited and gifted property stays separate, even if it gets mixed into the household over time. That last part is the protection the default law cannot give you.
Here is the honest picture: Virginia already protects inheritances and gifts on paper. The protection fails in practice because of how families actually use money. A prenup fixes the practice problem.
Under Va. Code § 20-107.3(A)(1), property you acquire during the marriage by inheritance, or by gift from someone other than your spouse, is your separate property. A divorce court does not divide it. Grandma's bequest, the down payment help from your parents, the family lake cabin passed to you alone: all of it starts out protected, with or without a prenup.
The protection depends on the money staying traceable. That is where real life intervenes. The inheritance check gets deposited into the joint checking account and mixes with paychecks. Part of it pays down the mortgage on the marital home. Some of it covers a kitchen renovation, a car, a family vacation. Ten years later, the burden is on you to trace every dollar, and the spouse claiming property is separate must prove it. Without clean records, commingled inheritance money can be treated as marital property and divided. We have watched six figure inheritances disappear into the marital pot one ordinary transaction at a time.
There is a second trap: gifts between spouses. If your parents gift money to both of you, or you retitle inherited property into joint names, it is generally marital from that moment. The family money has left the family, and no tracing can bring it back.
A prenuptial agreement under Va. Code § 20-150 replaces the tracing burden with a rule the two of you wrote. The agreement can state that inheritances and gifts received by either spouse, before or during the marriage, remain that spouse's separate property, including the growth and income they produce. It can go further and answer the commingling question in advance: what happens if inherited funds pass through a joint account, pay marital bills, or improve the marital home. It can also name expected inheritances, which matters for anyone whose parents have an estate plan built on the assumption that family money stays with their child.
The requirements are the same as for the rest of the agreement. In writing and signed by both parties under Va. Code § 20-149, entered voluntarily, with fair financial disclosure under Va. Code § 20-151. Expected inheritances belong in that disclosure too. Surprising your spouse with a family fortune years later is exactly the kind of omission that invites a challenge.
Virginia Code § 20-107.3(A)(1) makes property acquired by bequest, devise, descent, or gift from a third party separate property. Virginia Code § 20-150 lets engaged couples put that protection in contract form, where it survives the commingling that defeats the default rule in real households.
Every family's situation is different, but these six come up in almost every agreement where inherited wealth is involved.
Money or property already passed to you, named on the schedule with its current form and value.
Already YoursFuture bequests under a parent's or relative's estate plan, kept separate before they ever arrive.
Future BequestsDown payment help, tuition support, and annual gifts from parents or grandparents, marked as yours alone.
Third Party GiftsA cabin, farm, or home that has been in your family for generations, protected from a forced sale or division.
Generational LandDistributions and beneficial interests under family trusts, coordinated with the trust's own protections.
Works With the TrustThe appreciation, interest, and dividends inherited assets produce during the marriage, kept separate if you choose.
If You ChooseThe agreement is half the job. What you do with the money afterward is the other half.
"Inheritances are not lost in court. They are lost at the bank, one joint deposit at a time, years before anyone files anything."
The best time to protect an inheritance is before you receive it, because that is when no one is emotional about it. Put the rule in the prenup, then keep inherited money in its own account and let the agreement do the rest. And talk to your parents. If they have a trust or an estate plan built around keeping money in the family, your prenup should line up with it. We coordinate the two documents all the time, and the combination is far stronger than either one alone.
These are the questions we hear most about protecting family money. If you have a different one, we are happy to answer it directly.
Not at first. Under Va. Code § 20-107.3(A)(1), property you receive by inheritance, or by gift from someone other than your spouse, is your separate property even if it arrives during the marriage. The danger is what happens next: commingling it with marital money or retitling it jointly can convert it into divisible marital property.
Yes. Under Va. Code § 20-150, the agreement can cover property whenever and wherever acquired, which includes future inheritances. The agreement can state that anything either spouse inherits during the marriage remains that spouse's separate property, along with its growth and income. Expected inheritances should also appear in the financial disclosure.
Tell your attorney early, because options shrink with time. Without an agreement, commingled inheritance money can be claimed as separate only if you can trace it, and the burden of proof is on you. A prenup, or a postnuptial agreement if you are already married, can set a rule for funds that were previously commingled while both of you still agree on where the money came from.
Often yes. A well built trust protects assets while they sit inside it, but distributions that reach your hands can be commingled like any other money. A prenup covers the gap between the trust and your bank account, and we coordinate the agreement with the family's estate plan so the two protections reinforce each other.
Tell us about the family money you want protected, received or expected. We will put it in writing the right way, with time to spare before the wedding. Three offices across Northern Virginia, one phone number.

