Read Your Papers First
Whether the door is even open depends on how support was set. Start with the order or agreement.
Life does not stop when the divorce is final, and the law lets spousal support change to keep up, within limits. Here is what counts as a material change, how court orders differ from agreements, and what a court can actually do.
First call is a conversation, not a commitment. · By Alisa Chunephisal, Esq.
Here is the answer: spousal support can be changed after the divorce, but only in certain situations. Court-ordered support can be modified when there has been a material change in circumstances since the order, under Va. Code section 20-109. Support set by agreement follows the agreement's own terms, and whether it can be changed depends on the wording and the date it was signed.
Life does not stop when the divorce is final. Jobs end, health fails, incomes rise and fall. Virginia law lets spousal support change to keep up, but only within limits. Whether your support can be changed at all depends first on how it was set: by a judge, or by your own agreement.
For court-ordered support, the door opens when there has been a material change in circumstances since the last order, under Va. Code section 20-109. A material change is a real, significant shift, not a small or temporary dip. A genuine job loss, a serious illness, a large and lasting change in either person's income, or retirement can all qualify. The change generally has to be involuntary. You cannot quit a good job on purpose to cut your payment and call it a material change. The spouse asking for the change carries the burden of proving it.
This is the part that decides everything. If a judge set your support, it can be modified on a material change. If you set it in a settlement agreement, the agreement controls, and the date matters. Agreements signed before July 1, 2018 are generally not modifiable unless the agreement says they can be. Agreements signed on or after July 1, 2018 are not modifiable only if the agreement is specific about that. So the first step is always to read your agreement and check its date.
To change support, you file a motion or petition to modify, then show the court the material change. The court can increase support, decrease it, extend its length, or end it. Because the question is narrow and the proof matters, it pays to prepare. If your circumstances have shifted, it is worth understanding how modifications work before you file.
Virginia Code § 20-109(B) lets a court increase, decrease, or terminate court ordered spousal support upon a material change in circumstances, and sets the rules for when support fixed by a signed agreement can be changed.
A modification is one narrow question: what changed, and was it big enough. Here is how to put that case together.
Whether the door is even open depends on how support was set. Start with the order or agreement.
Before or after July 1, 2018 changes the default rule entirely. Confirm the date before anything else.
Termination letters, medical records, pay history. The material change must be proven, not described.
Courts move on durable shifts, not bad months. Establish that the change is real and continuing.
Support generally cannot be changed retroactively past the filing date. Delay costs real money.
Both households' complete pictures. The court re-weighs the award against current reality.
The whole motion rises or falls on the change itself. Here is what tends to qualify, and what tends to fail.
"Life does not stand still after a divorce, and the law knows it. If something real has changed, you are allowed to ask for the order to change with it. Bring me what happened, and we will look at it honestly together."
Read your agreement and its date before anything else, because that single detail decides whether the door is even open. People come in ready to relitigate the whole marriage. That is not what a modification is. The court wants to know one thing: has something material and usually involuntary changed since the last order. Before you spend a dollar, pull out your final order or agreement and look at how support was set and when. If it was a court order, a real change gives you a path. If it was an agreement, the wording and the date tell you whether the door is open at all.
Spousal support questions rarely stand alone. Here is how this topic connects to the rest of our spousal support work. Start anywhere, and we will help you find the rest.
These are the questions we hear most about this part of spousal support. If yours is not here, we are glad to answer it on a first call.
It is a real, significant, and usually involuntary change since the last support order, such as a genuine job loss, a serious illness, a large lasting income change, or retirement. A small or temporary dip generally does not count, and the person asking for the change has to prove it.
It depends on the agreement's wording and its date. Agreements before July 1, 2018 are generally not modifiable unless they say they can be. Agreements on or after July 1, 2018 are not modifiable only if the agreement is specific about that. Court-ordered support, by contrast, can be modified on a material change.
The spouse asking for the modification. You have to show the court that a material change has happened since the last order. The other side can dispute whether the change is real, significant, or involuntary.
On a proper showing, the court can increase support, decrease it, extend its length, or end it. The judge is deciding the narrow question of how the change should affect the existing award, not redoing the divorce.
Tell us what shifted and bring your order or agreement. We will tell you honestly whether the door is open and what a modification would take. Three offices across Northern Virginia, one phone number.

