Crystal City, Arlington County · Uncontested Divorce
You have already decided. What is stopping you now is not the marriage, it is the fear that ending it will cost more than you have, and that you will find that out halfway through. That is a reasonable fear and it deserves a straight answer rather than a brochure. Here is the answer: an uncontested divorce is by a wide margin the least expensive way to end a Virginia marriage, and the total depends on a short list of specific things, mainly how complicated your property is, whether retirement accounts need separate orders, and whether the two of you are actually in agreement or only hoping to be. In Crystal City, I have this conversation constantly, and I would rather give you the honest drivers than a number that means nothing.
By Corrie Sirkin, Esq. · Founding Partner, NOVA Legal Professionals
This article is one part of our larger guide to divorce in Virginia. For the full picture, start with our cornerstone, Divorce in Virginia. Here, I will focus on cost, and on where people waste money without meaning to.
What an Uncontested Divorce Costs, at a Glance
- The cheapest structure available. An agreed case avoids discovery, motions, expert witnesses, and trial, which are what make contested divorces expensive.
- The agreement drives the price, not the court filing. Drafting and negotiating the settlement is where the hours go.
- Separate court costs apply, including the circuit court filing fee and any service costs. Confirm current amounts with the clerk.
- Retirement orders are usually billed separately because each plan requires its own document.
- One attorney cannot represent both spouses. Virginia ethics rules do not allow it.
- Court: a Crystal City case is heard in the Arlington County Circuit Court.
What you are actually paying for
People assume they are paying for the divorce. They are not. The divorce itself, once everything is agreed, is a modest amount of paperwork.
What you are paying for is the agreement, and specifically for someone to make sure it covers everything, that its terms will function years from now, and that it does not contain a provision you will regret. A well drafted settlement is the entire product in an uncontested divorce. The filing is the receipt.
That is why two uncontested divorces can differ so much in cost. A couple who rents, has no children, keeps their own accounts, and owns nothing jointly has a short document. A couple with a condo, two retirement plans, equity compensation, and a child has a long one, and every clause in it is a decision someone has to think through.
The five things that move the price
| What drives cost | Why it costs more | What you can do about it |
|---|---|---|
| Property complexity | Every asset class needs its own treatment, and hybrid property needs tracing | Gather statements before your first meeting so time is spent deciding, not hunting |
| Retirement accounts | Each plan needs a separate order drafted to that plan’s rules | Know how many plans exist. Two plans means two orders |
| Real estate | Buyouts, refinance terms, and deadlines all have to be negotiated and written | Decide sell or buy out early. Indecision here is expensive |
| Children | A parenting plan and a support calculation add substance and require care | Come with a schedule you both already broadly accept |
| How agreed you really are | Every reopened issue is another round of drafting and another conversation | Have the hard talks before the drafting starts, not during it |
Notice the pattern. Almost every cost driver is something you can partly control before you ever hire anyone. The single best thing you can do for your bill is arrive organized and genuinely aligned.
Flat fee or hourly, and which one protects you
Many firms, including ours, handle straightforward agreed divorces on a flat fee, and handle more complex ones hourly. Both are legitimate. What matters is understanding what the number includes.
Ask specifically: does it cover drafting the settlement agreement, or only the filing? Does it include retirement orders? Does it include revisions if your spouse’s attorney sends changes? What happens if the case stops being agreed? A flat fee that covers the filing but not the agreement is a smaller number attached to a smaller service, and people discover the difference at the worst moment.
Get the scope in writing. A clear engagement letter is not a formality, it is the thing that prevents a disagreement about money in the middle of a divorce.
One Lawyer Cannot Represent Both of You
This surprises people who are on good terms, and it is worth saying plainly. An attorney represents one party. If we prepare your agreement, we represent you, and your spouse is unrepresented. That is permitted and common, but your spouse should have an independent attorney review the document before signing. It is not an insult and it is not a sign the divorce is turning adversarial. It is what makes the agreement hard to challenge later, which protects both of you.
Want a real number for your Crystal City case?
Tell us what you own and whether you agree, and we will scope it honestly. The first call is a conversation, not a commitment.
The costs people forget to budget
The attorney fee is the number people ask about. These are the ones that show up later.
- The circuit court filing fee and any related court costs, which are paid to the court rather than to your attorney. Confirm current amounts with the clerk, since they change.
- Service of process, if your spouse does not sign a waiver accepting service.
- Retirement orders, often billed per plan because each one is a separate drafting job. See retirement account division for what each plan requires.
- Refinancing or a deed transfer if one of you keeps the home, including lender fees and recording costs.
- A notary, and in some cases a real estate attorney for the deed work.
- Updating everything afterward, including beneficiary designations, your will, and titles. Small individually, and easy to skip, which is why they cause problems later.
Three places people save money and should not
I would rather tell you where the false economies are than watch someone find out the expensive way.
Skipping the review of a form agreement. Downloadable templates are not written for Virginia law or for your assets. I have read agreements that were silent on spousal support, which left the issue open for years, and agreements that transferred a house without addressing the mortgage at all. Having a property settlement agreement reviewed costs a fraction of fixing one.
Leaving retirement orders for later. Deferring the order to save money now means drafting it when your former spouse has no reason to cooperate. That is how a cheap divorce becomes an expensive enforcement action.
Filing before the agreement is finished. Filing early does not start any clock that helps you, and an incomplete file can be sent back. Get the document right first.
What if one of us is leaving the area?
This comes up constantly in Crystal City, where jobs move people on short notice.
Virginia requires that at least one spouse has been a bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia for at least six months before the case is filed. If one of you is relocating, the practical question is whether you still satisfy that requirement and whether Virginia is where you want the case decided. Sometimes it makes sense to file before a move rather than after.
A relocation does not have to make things harder. It does mean the sequence needs thought, and it is worth raising in your first conversation rather than after the moving truck is booked. If a move turns a cooperative situation into a disagreement about jurisdiction, the case can stop being uncontested and become a contested matter, which changes the cost picture entirely.
How Virginia law treats it
Virginia grants a no fault divorce after the spouses have lived separate and apart without cohabitation and without interruption for one year, or for six months where there are no minor children of the marriage and the parties have entered into a property settlement agreement. One spouse must have been a bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia for at least six months before filing. Proof may be taken by deposition or affidavit rather than a live hearing, which is what keeps an agreed case inexpensive, and the court may affirm, ratify, and incorporate the written agreement into the final decree so its terms become enforceable as a court order. A Crystal City case is heard in the Arlington County Circuit Court.
How we help in Crystal City
We handle agreed divorces for clients across Crystal City, Pentagon City, and Aurora Highlands. Many are federal employees or contractors, and many are dual income households with real assets and no interest in a fight. Our job is to scope the work honestly at the start, tell you what the document actually needs to cover, and finish the uncontested process without generating hours that do not serve you.
If you are earlier along and just need terms on paper while you sort out living arrangements, a separation agreement can carry that weight first. And if it turns out you are not as agreed as you hoped, I will tell you that directly rather than let you pay for a filing that is not ready. You can read more about the areas we serve on our Crystal City family law page and our Arlington County overview.
“The cheapest divorce is not the one with the smallest quote. It is the one you never have to go back and fix.”
Corrie Sirkin, Esq. · Founding Partner
Corrie’s Honest Counsel
Ask every attorney you speak with the same three questions: what exactly does this fee cover, what is not included, and what happens to the price if my spouse changes their mind. The answers will tell you more than the headline number will. And do the hard conversations with your spouse before the drafting starts. Every issue you resolve at your kitchen table costs nothing. The same issue resolved through two attorneys costs real money, and it is the same answer either way.
An uncontested divorce is the least expensive way to end a Virginia marriage because the settlement agreement, not the court process, is what you are paying for, so arriving organized and genuinely in agreement does more to control your cost than shopping for the lowest quote.
Authoritative References
Sources
- Code of Virginia, § 20-91(A)(9)(a). Sets the no fault grounds: one year of separation, or six months where there are no minor children of the marriage and the parties have signed a property settlement agreement.
- Code of Virginia, § 20-97. Requires that one party have been a bona fide resident and domiciliary of Virginia for at least six months before the suit is filed.
- Code of Virginia, § 20-106. Permits the required proof in a divorce to be taken by deposition or affidavit rather than a live hearing, which is what allows most agreed cases to finish without a court appearance.
- Code of Virginia, § 20-109.1. Allows the court to affirm, ratify, and incorporate a written agreement between the spouses into the decree, making its terms enforceable as a court order.
- Virginia Rules of Professional Conduct, Rule 1.7. Governs conflicts of interest, which is why a single attorney cannot represent both spouses in the same divorce.
Virginia authority verified as of July 2026. Every family and every case is different; confirm the current rules and what fits your situation.
Frequently Asked Questions
What does an uncontested divorce cost in Virginia?
It is the least expensive way to end a Virginia marriage because an agreed case avoids discovery, motions, experts, and trial. The total depends mainly on how complex your property is, how many retirement accounts need separate orders, whether real estate is involved, and whether children are part of the case.
Can my spouse and I use the same attorney for our divorce?
No. An attorney represents one party, so if a firm prepares your agreement it represents you and your spouse is unrepresented. Your spouse should have an independent attorney review the document before signing, which is what makes the agreement harder to challenge later.
What costs are separate from the attorney fee?
The circuit court filing fee and related court costs, service of process if your spouse does not sign a waiver, retirement orders which are usually billed per plan, and any refinance or deed transfer costs if one spouse keeps the home. Confirm current court fees with the clerk, since they change.
Can I still file in Virginia if my spouse is moving out of state?
Possibly. Virginia requires that at least one spouse has been a bona fide resident and domiciliary of the state for at least six months before filing. If a move is coming, the timing of the filing matters, so raise it early rather than after the move happens.


