Pentagon City, Virginia · Military Divorce
If you are facing a military divorce in Pentagon City, the retirement is usually the question that matters most. Military retired pay is treated as marital property in Virginia and can be divided, but only the marital share, and only within the limits set by federal law. In the shadow of the Pentagon, where senior officers and long careers are common, getting the share and the order right matters more than almost anywhere. Let me walk you through how the retirement is actually divided, with care.
By Alisa Chunephisal, Esq. · Founding Partner, NOVA Legal Professionals
This article is one part of our larger military divorce guide. For the full picture, start with our cornerstone, Military Divorce in Virginia. Here, I will focus on how military retirement is divided and protected.
Why retirement sits at the center
For a career service member, the pension is often the single largest thing built during the marriage, worth more than the house and the savings together. That is especially true in Pentagon City, where so many residents serve long careers at senior rank. Virginia treats the marital portion of that retirement as property to be divided fairly, under the federal Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act, or USFSPA. The law lets a state court divide disposable retired pay. It does not dictate the split, which is decided here under Virginia law. Getting that distinction right from the start keeps expectations honest on both sides. You can read more on our military retirement division page.
Only the marital share is divided
A common fear is that a divorce hands away the entire pension. It does not. Courts generally divide only the marital share, the part earned during the marriage, often measured by the months married during creditable service over the total months of service. Retirement earned before the marriage, and in most cases after it, stays separate. Pinning down accurate service and marriage dates is the foundation, because the whole calculation rests on them, whether we represent the service member or the spouse.
The Frozen Benefit Rule for Divorces After 2017
For divorces finalized after December 2017, federal law freezes the former spouse’s share at the member’s rank and years of service at the time of divorce, based on the High-3 pay then. The share earns cost-of-living increases over time, but it does not rise with promotions or longevity the member earns later. For a senior officer still climbing in rank, this rule matters a great deal, and accounting for it correctly protects both sides.
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Entitlement is not the same as direct pay
People often confuse two separate questions. The first is whether a former spouse is entitled to a share. The second is who actually pays it. Under the 10/10 rule, ten years of marriage overlapping ten years of service, the Defense Finance and Accounting Service can pay the former spouse directly. Fall short of 10/10 and the former spouse is still entitled to a share. It simply gets paid by the service member rather than by the pay center. Mixing up entitlement and payment method has cost spouses money they were owed.
The order has to be built to last
A retirement division lives or dies on the order that carries it out. The pay center reads these orders strictly and will reject one that does not use the language it requires, sending the family back for months of refiling. We draft the retirement order to satisfy both the Arlington Circuit Court and the pay center, and we address the Survivor Benefit Plan in the same breath, since dividing the pension does not protect a former spouse if the retiree dies first. The goal is a result that holds for decades, not one that unravels.
When duty keeps a spouse away from Pentagon City
Many retirement divisions are finalized while the service member is stationed elsewhere or deployed overseas, far from any courthouse, even when home is a short walk from the Pentagon. The work does not have to wait. We can gather the service record, run the marital share, and draft the order while the member is away, reviewing everything by phone or email before filing. A career earned across years of duty and absence deserves an order prepared with the same care whether it is signed in Arlington or from the other side of the world.
How we help in Pentagon City
We calculate the marital share, apply the Frozen Benefit Rule, separate entitlement from direct pay, and draft orders the pay center will honor, with survivor protection in view. Pentagon City military divorces are filed in the Arlington Circuit Court, and we represent service members and spouses across Pentagon City and the surrounding Arlington communities. You can read more on our military retirement division page.
“The retirement is the career’s reward. Dividing it correctly is how we keep a fair result from turning into a fight.”
Alisa Chunephisal, Esq. · Founding Partner
Alisa’s Honest Counsel
Gather your service dates and marriage dates first, because the marital share depends entirely on them. Do not confuse the 10/10 rule with whether you are owed a share, since it only governs who pays. And insist that the retirement order and the Survivor Benefit Plan be handled together, because one without the other leaves a gap.
Calculate the share carefully and draft an order the pay center will honor, and the retirement is divided fairly and stays settled for the long run.
Authoritative References
Sources
- Uniformed Services Former Spouses’ Protection Act, 10 U.S.C. § 1408. Authorizes state courts to treat disposable military retired pay as marital property and sets the 10/10 rule for direct payment by DFAS.
- National Defense Authorization Act for FY2017. Established the Frozen Benefit Rule for divorces after December 2017.
- Code of Virginia, § 20-107.3. Virginia’s equitable distribution statute governing division of the marital share of a pension.
- Arlington Circuit Court. Handles military divorce and retirement division orders for families in the Pentagon City area.
Federal and Virginia authority verified as of June 2026. Every military divorce turns on its own facts; confirm current rules for your situation.
Frequently Asked Questions
Is the whole military pension divided in a divorce?
No. Virginia generally divides only the marital share, the part earned during the marriage, usually measured by months married during service over total months of service. Service before the marriage stays separate.
What does the USFSPA do?
It allows a state court to treat disposable military retired pay as marital property and divide it, and it sets the 10/10 rule for direct payment by DFAS. It does not dictate the size of the split.
Do I lose my share if we were married less than ten years?
No. The 10/10 rule only decides whether DFAS pays you directly. A former spouse married less than ten years overlapping service can still receive a share, paid by the service member.
Can the retirement order be prepared while a spouse is deployed?
Yes. The service record review, the marital share calculation, and the drafting can move forward by phone and email while a service member is stationed elsewhere or deployed overseas.
When You Are Ready
Let’s divide the retirement right in Pentagon City.
Tell me your service and marriage dates, and I will help you understand the marital share and the order it takes to protect it. The first call is a warm, no pressure conversation.